there’s also something about mutual respect. how hard is that? too difficult for some it seems. this, again, comes from within… how can you respect others (and be respected) if you don’t respect yourself? looking inwards is a starting point to feeling good inside and out and creating healthy friendships and relationships. lesbian “dramaramas” at the age of 20 is one thing but at this point in my life, i think i’ve had enough of them. no wonder it is so hard to trust someone… so many unhealthy relationships / friendships going on that it is sometimes difficult to tell the difference between women who are truly honest and those that keep lying to themselves…
i’ve lied to myself long enough… still do sometimes but i quiver and quickly recover. i think being aware of the darkness within is resolving half of the issues… the rest is practice.
peace everyone!
Ally L.